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What PrEP Taught Me About Mental Health
What PrEP Taught Me About Mental Health, Harm Reduction, and Human Connection

Released: July 24, 2026

Jason Watler
Jason Watler
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Key Takeaways
  • Conversations about sex and HIV prevention framed around danger, shame, or judgment contribute to enduring stigma around HIV and sexual health.
  • Mental health professionals are uniquely positioned to create more supportive spaces in sexual healthcare and HIV prevention by practicing curiosity instead of judgment.

As a Community Health Worker, I spend a lot of my time talking to people about HIV prevention, sexual health, and navigating healthcare systems. And as someone who has been on pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) since 2017, I also understand these conversations from a very different perspective: That of a patient.

Talking About HIV Isn’t Just About HIV
Over the years, I've helped friends, colleagues, clients, and community members learn about PrEP and decide whether it was right for them. What I've learned is that these conversations are rarely just about HIV. Rather, they're about anxiety and trust, relationships, feeling safe in your own body, and being able to express your sexuality without fear.

For many people, especially LGBTQ+ people, conversations about sex have often been framed around danger, shame, or judgment. Too often, people enter healthcare spaces expecting to be lectured about what they shouldn't be doing, instead of receiving support for the decisions they are already making.

Mental health professionals have an incredible opportunity to change this dynamic. Many therapists, counselors, psychiatrists, and behavioral health professionals see their clients far more often than a primary care provider does. Furthermore, mental health professionals are often the people clients trust most within the healthcare system. That trust creates an opportunity to discuss sexual health, HIV prevention, and overall well-being in ways that feel affirming rather than punitive.

Applying Harm Reduction Principles to Discussions of HIV Prevention
One of the most important concepts I learned through public health and community work is harm reduction. Harm reduction recognizes that people are human.

People have desires. People seek intimacy, connection, pleasure, and love. Rather than asking people to deny those realities, harm reduction asks: “How can we help people stay as healthy and safe as possible while honoring their autonomy?” That shift matters.

Healthcare professionals sometimes focus so heavily on changing behaviors that they ignore the motivations behind them. Correcting this means meeting people where they are. It means acknowledging that you don't have to approve of every choice a person makes to support their health. It means creating space for honest conversations without judgment.

Applying harm reduction principles to sexual health conversations is especially important when discussing PrEP.

When I first started PrEP, I was primarily thinking about having fun while protecting myself from HIV acquisition. What I didn't anticipate was how much it would impact my mental health. PrEP gave me a sense of control and reassurance. It reduced anxiety around HIV and allowed me to focus more fully on my relationships, my community, and my life. That feeling is something I hear echoed from many people I work with today.

PrEP doesn't eliminate every worry, and it certainly isn't a replacement for communication and trust in relationships, or other prevention strategies for sexually transmitted infections. But PrEP can help people feel empowered around their sexual health. For some individuals, that empowerment translates directly into improved mental well-being.

Practicing Curiosity Without Judgement 
As HIV prevention continues to evolve, people have more options than ever before. Some people prefer taking a daily pill. Others struggle with pill fatigue and may prefer long-acting injectable options. For others, HIV testing before beginning a relationship works. Still others may be interested in future prevention methods that are being developed.

The goal is not to convince anyone that one option is better than another. It’s to help them find an HIV prevention approach that aligns with their lifestyle, needs, and values, just as mental health professionals help people discern what treatment works best for their mental well-being.

Anyone interested in this work shouldn’t worry about becoming an HIV expert. That doesn’t happen overnight, and you don't need to have every answer. Sometimes the most impactful thing you can do is offer an open-ended prompt, listen without judgment, and help someone explore what feels right for them.

At the end of the day, pleasure-based prevention and harm reduction are not about encouraging reckless behavior. They are about recognizing that people are going to have sex, form relationships, and seek connection. The role of HCPs is not to judge those experiences but to ensure people have the tools and knowledge they need to navigate them safely.

Every day, I see what happens when people feel judged, and I see what happens when people feel supported.

When people feel judged, they disengage.

When people feel supported, they ask questions.

When people feel supported, they seek care.

When people feel supported, they are empowered to make informed decisions about their health.

Mental health professionals have an opportunity to create more of those supportive spaces in sexual healthcare and HIV prevention. By embracing harm reduction, practicing curiosity instead of judgment, and meeting people where they are, mental health professionals can help individuals protect not only their physical health but also their mental and emotional well-being.

Sometimes prevention starts with something as simple as helping a person see themself.

Your Thoughts
What are ways you have embraced harm reduction and shown curiosity instead of judgement when talking to clients about HIV PrEP? Leave a comment to join the discussion!